Blind Loyalty and Nepotism in New Jersey Methodism

Methodist Voices on September 22, 2022

The following exposé of patterns of nepotism and blind loyalty under New Jersey Bishop John Schol is contributed by the Rev. Beth Caulfield, who is now an ordained Elder in the Global Methodist Church. She is also the President of the Greater New Jersey Chapter of the Wesleyan Covenant Association, a member of its Global Council and one of the 16 members of the Next Steps Working Group that put together the first draft of the Book of Doctrines and Disciplines for the new denomination. She also serves as a Trustee for the Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association. Beth was a clergy in the United Methodist Church for eight years, including serving on the Bishop’s staff with distinction for three years. She and her family live just outside of Philadelphia in Gloucester County, NJ.

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It is difficult to shine light on the deeds of adept power abusers. They are good at cloaking their offenses and calling upon cronies to both carry out and back up their actions and defenses. They are emboldened when they know the systems that support their power offer easy ways to evade accountability and more opportunities for repercussions to their accusers than to themselves. Narcissistic power abusers enjoy dancing at the lines of appropriateness and legality by arrogantly taunting their victims and those who would dare call their behaviors into question. Why would anyone bother to take that on? Surely only when you are called to do so.

In late May of this year, I published a book entitled People Throw Rocks At Things That Shine: A Clergy Whistleblower’s Journey. The book shares my ministry experience and detailed information about power abuses and a toxic culture within the United Methodist Church, especially within the Greater New Jersey Annual Conference under the leadership of Bishop John Schol.Shortly after the publication of my book, I was interviewed by Cynthia Astle, editor and founder of United Methodist Insight. The article was published in conjunction with a second article publishing responses by Bishop Schol and members of his staff to my book. I have taken some time to reflect and pray on the remarks of Bishop Schol and his team before offering my reply. To be most clear, my answer is given over this three-part article.

In their 2020 book, A Church Called Tov: Forming a Goodness Culture That Resists Abuses of Power and Promotes Healing, Scot Mcnight and Laura Mcknight Barringer write:

How a church responds to criticism or handles information that could damage the reputation of a leader of the church, reveals the culture of that church. Again, compassion, truth, and wisdom should be our guiding lights. But when a culture is toxic, priorities change and truth telling often takes a back seat…In a toxic culture, pastors and leaders tell stories that are false, while the congregation either goes along with the deception or lives in blissful ignorance, (Laura Mcknight Barringer, A Church Called Tov: Forming a Goodness Culture That Resists Abuses of Power and Promotes Healing, [Tyndale Momentum, 2020], pp. 51-52, [ebook]).

It was considering that quote that I offered the following in my book:

 It is my prayer that this book be met with the grace, prayer and resolve for personal growth, glory for God, and institutional improvement that has gone into its writing. I confess additional concerns that this whistleblowing would instead be met with denial or attacks…. I have done my best to offer only what is helpful and true, even when the details cause pain as they are exposed and revisited. That pain includes my own. (p. 9)

I am comforted to share that the vast majority of responses I have received have demonstrated the kinds of healthy responses that McKnight and Barringer reference.  The book was immediately endorsed by Rev. Dr. Rob Nelson, who is an ordained elder in the Indiana Annual Conference and Chair of Associates in Advocacy, a national team of clergy who assist other clergy when they are subject to complaints, charges, and other employment predicaments. He stated, “This book reveals truth, a frustrating truth about a system needing repair. It should be required reading for ALL Candidates for Ministry.”

Publicly posted reviews for the book corroborate my story and give much affirmation that the activities I share are real and indeed hurting many. Including in the reviews, stories have been shared publicly by others  from within Greater New Jersey, Baltimore-Washington (where Schol served as bishop from 2008 until 2012) and elsewhere that offer accounts of similar incidents. I have taken texts, emails and phone calls from leaders expressing repentance and asking for forgiveness for complicity to some of the wrongs I and others have experienced. These reactions have indeed been healing for me.

But perhaps the most poignant responses I am receiving and the ones I hope most for, are best summarized by this review on Amazon.com:

Jeff R.

5.0 out of 5 stars An important read!

Reviewed in the United States on June 7, 2022

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Could not put the book down. As a United Methodist pastor, I was challenged to be more aware of abuses by those in leadership and wondered if I’ve been quiet when I should have spoken up. And, it encouraged me to be aware of my own leadership style and be alert to abusing my own position. I appreciate the honesty and candor and the risk of the author in sharing her story. I highly recommend it!

The attitude reflected by that reviewer, sadly, contrasts greatly with the response offered by Bishop Schol. Even though my book devotes considerable space to describing his leadership and events occurring within his responsibility, Schol claims to not have even read it. Instead, his and his team’s response is demonstrative of the narrative I assert in the opening paragraph of this article. It reflects more of the toxic culture and bad behaviors I call out within the book.

The additional comments by several of Schol’s staff members to UM Insight demonstrate his often repeated strategy of calling on loyal insiders to respond for his own offenses. I discuss examples of this behavior extensively in my book. I cite several studies regarding power abusers’ demands for loyalty. Whether such insiders lack the strength and conviction to speak truth to power, or because they choose blind loyalty above the good of the Church; they too are victims of spiritual abuse. They have been carefully chosen and groomed to, above all else, carry out the agenda of the bishop. Those selected to be his team are well-treated financially and with other perks. Furthermore, if you do not conform, you are ousted, shunned, and made an example of to keep others in line.

For example, Schol utilizes one of his district superintendents and his human resources director to defend his practices of nepotism that I, among many, point out. Their responses are weak and do not address the repeated incidents of nepotism through Bishop Schol that have been noted over the years. The DS defends their process of appointing Bishop’s Schol’s own son (Rev. Mark Schol) as ethical because Bishop Schol leaves the cabinet table when his son is discussed and this DS consults another bishop in another conference when he wants to discuss Bishop Schol’s son’s appointment. None of that has anything to do with the fact that Bishop Schol’s son was brought to New Jersey under his father’s own leadership. The HR Director volunteers that Schol’s wife was hired by other staff under Schol because she was allegedly the most qualified, but resigned as a result of concerns of nepotism. These defenses, however, do not tell the whole story.

One year after Bishop Schol’s 2004 assignment to the Baltimore-Washington Conference, that Conference hired his wife, Beverly, as the Executive Assistant to the Bishop. Beverly served throughout his remaining seven-year term in that conference-salaried role. Shortly after Bishop Schol came to Greater New Jersey, Beverly was hired into a significant leadership position as Regional Manager with the Conference’s newly formed Future of Hope 501(c)3 initiative. She has subsequently served in other roles under his supervision including as Manager, Property at the United Methodist Church of Greater New Jersey, and as a manager of Nehemiah Properties. Nehemiah Properties is a 501(c)3 nonprofit formed by Schol and the conference “to help turn GNJ’s church buildings into financial and mission assets,” through “the re-purposing, redevelopment, and or sale of properties.”

While Bishop Schol served in Baltimore-Washington, he was Bishop in Residence and on the Board of Wesley Theological Seminary in Washington, D.C. His adult daughter, Kristin, was subsequently employed by the seminary. Kristin later obtained her International Coaching Federation Certification while training in conjunction with Greater New Jersey clergy.

Continuing the pattern, Bishop Schol’s son, Rev. Mark Schol, ordained in the Northern Illinois Conference by Bishop Sally Dyck in 2018, immediately began an appointment in Jersey City, New Jersey in 2018. The move to New Jersey  was in conjunction with that of his wife, Meredith Schol. Schol’s daughter-in-law had previously received her PhD in Christian Education and Congregational Studies from Garrett-Evangelical Theological Seminary in 2016 and had served on the staff of the denomination’s Connectional Table from 2012 until 2018. In 2018, she was appointed as an Associate Professor and Director of Doctoral Studies at Drew Theological School, an institution for which Bishop Schol has served as a trustee since coming to New Jersey in 2012. He also chairs the Drew Theological Advisory Committee. Finally, on February 6, 2022, it was announced by the cabinet that the Rev. Mark Schol would be appointed to Madison UMC, which is a stone’s throw from the Drew campus. It should be noted that Schol’s children and daughter-in-law were not raised or educated in New Jersey or the Washington, D.C. area.

While not saying any of Schol’s family lack the gifts and grace to serve in these positions, to avoid harm to the workplace, people should be deployed in ministry settings and employed based solely on their qualifications and gifts, not nepotism or favoritism. Nepotism, especially when flagrantly repeated, sows seeds of distrust and resentment. Nepotism and conflict-of-interest assignments for staff members, as I gave further examples of in the book, continue as patterns under Schol’s leadership.

Next Week, Pt. 2: Addressing Bullying, Sexism, and Sexual Ethics

  1. Comment by David on September 22, 2022 at 7:59 am

    It is interesting that the author is a trustee of the Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association “of the United Methodist Church.” Since its founding in 1869 as a permanent camp meeting on the New Jersey shore, it has always claimed a connection to the church, though one never legally existed. Trustees are no longer required to be Methodists. Originally, those that leased lots in Ocean Grove for cottages had to have letters of recommendation from protestant churches. Eventually, these rules were relaxed and even Catholics and Jews were allowed in.

    The OGCMA is criticized for being increasingly heavy-handed in attempting to return the now largely secular town to its former religiosity. An ocean pier destroyed by Hurricane Sandy is being rebuilt in the shape of a cross. Secular events in the c. 7,000-seat Great Auditorium have been largely eliminated. Streaming views of Sunday morning services there show seemingly more ushers and choir members than an audience. The natives are restless.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ocean_Grove,_New_Jersey

  2. Comment by Mike on September 22, 2022 at 8:53 am

    David, how do your comments have anything to do with the above commentary? The author was dealing with a situation that needs to be rectified, and you take a side potshot at her in an utterly unrelated manner. Your comment is disgusting.

  3. Comment by Pastor Mike on September 22, 2022 at 10:46 am

    @David. I know the Rev. Beth Caulfield. She is a gifted pastor and a strong, Christian woman.

    “Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain and most fools do.”
    – Benjamin Franklin

  4. Comment by David on September 22, 2022 at 3:13 pm

    Those that live in stained glass houses should not throw stones.

  5. Comment by George on September 22, 2022 at 6:40 pm

    Ben Franklin was a square shooter and was right on target with that observation.

  6. Comment by George on September 22, 2022 at 9:17 pm

    Thank you Ben Franklin.

  7. Comment by David on September 23, 2022 at 7:10 am

    “Whoever will say ‘You fool.’ is condemned to the Gehenna of fire.” (Mat. 5:22)

  8. Comment by Krystal on September 23, 2022 at 9:59 am

    My name is Krystal, and I was sexually abused by a GNJ pastor, Darryl Duer years ago. I filed a complaint with Bishop Schol about it in the summer of 2013. After several years of fighting Schol to get him to actually address it and get churches to stop working with him and sending their youth to him, Bishop Schol finally held a meeting in January 2017 to FINALLY acknowledge and address my abuse. That is the meeting Ms. Caulfield writes about in her book and says is not actually about that pastor or the abuse I endured. Ms. Caulfield was already aware of my abuse and that clergy person, so to say she had never heard of him in her book is disingenuous and if she’s lying about that, what else is she lying about in this book?

    And don’t misunderstand, I’m not saying she’s wrong about Schol’s leadership or that some of the things she’s mentioned didn’t happen. I have my own challenges with Schol, and I’ve been begging him for justice for 9 years. The answers I get are “sure we realize you were harmed by his inaction, but bishop’s are immune from prosecution in the Methodist Church” etc. But, I am saying, the integrity of the source matters, and in her book she tries to take away the only ounce of justice I ever received by being dishonest about the content. While I wholeheartedly believe Schol abuses his power, knowing Ms. Caulfield lied, and further printed those lies, it certainly adds to the question of what else is not true in this book that she coopted from others.

    Beth- any time you want to apologize and print a retraction about that incident, I’m happy to entertain that conversation.

  9. Comment by Cory on September 23, 2022 at 10:02 am

    I do not say David is a fool, but a troll. In a true sense. Waiting by a metaphorical cross roads and taking swipes at passers by with no real aim but to disrupt. I’m sure my comment will do nothing but encourage him, but sometimes these things need called out for what they are. Say hello to Bishop Schol when you meet him next.

  10. Comment by Gary Bebop on September 23, 2022 at 11:28 am

    Yes, trolls love to hover about these blogs as flies around the screen door. Call them out. Their strange obsession with self-promotion is malignant.

  11. Comment by Anthony on September 23, 2022 at 12:32 pm

    The worst offense of our bishops — rigging the system in order to DUMP this separation-disaffiliation process down and onto LOCAL CONGREGATIONS and their MINISTERS. This is UGLY and beyond reprehensible!!! SHAMEFUL!

  12. Comment by David on September 23, 2022 at 1:09 pm

    In the same way the bishop must face his actions, so must the author. I have frequented Ocean Grove for decades and many are very upset about the recent changes.

  13. Comment by Krystal on September 23, 2022 at 3:38 pm

    This is just my comment to whoever moderates comments. It’s super sketchy you allow other comments like all of those just in-fighting above, but don’t publish the comment I left this morning of actual criticism of the content of the book that can be easily fact checked and proven she’s being dishonest. You just lost all journalistic credibility by doing that in my eyes.

  14. Comment by Jeffrey Walton on September 23, 2022 at 6:26 pm

    Krystal, sometime it takes time to review and approve comments in order to weed out spam. FYI: this is a blog.

  15. Comment by Dan W on September 23, 2022 at 6:40 pm

    David, I think you understand how traditional United Methodists feel. Many of us have been active members for decades, lifetimes even. And many are very upset about the recent changes. (See what I did here?)

    I wonder if you gave a significant amount of your time, talent and treasure over the years, to support the Ocean Grove community? According to Wikipedia, there are 161 miles of Jersey shore. Surely you can find another retreat, just as many Methodists are seeking a denomination that supports and respects our traditional values.

  16. Comment by David on September 24, 2022 at 10:08 am

    Ocean Grove is unique and no other town in NJ is similar. It has what is likely the largest collection of wooden Victorian architecture in the county. People tend to be friendly and even wish strangers good morning. It is a very quiet place that does not appeal to everyone. It was famous for its Sat. night shows that might feature well-known figures. Caruso, Marian Anderson, and several Presidents all appeared in the Auditorium. Sadly, this is now ended and only overtly religious events are allowed. There is a disabled man who held a small yoga glass from a chair on the wide boardwalk. He was told he could not continue unless he first talked about Jesus to his few students. Having hosted a world meeting of the WCA in the Youth Temple, the changing direction of the OGCMA was obvious several years ago.

  17. Comment by Anthony on September 24, 2022 at 11:08 am

    Progressives, liberals, or whatever their label back in 1972 started this fight and conservatives REACTED and continued to react at every General Conference through Special General Conference 2019. The original language on the practice of homosexuality was placed in the Book of Discipline as a DEFENSIVE move only. It would have never been placed there and defended over these 50 years unless FORCED to do so. Over these 50 years, why haven’t the liberals started their own so called Methodist church if their message and theological position is so RIGHT? That church today would have at least 100 million American members and growing in this sex obsessed culture — right? Is there a UMC liberal out there anywhere who will answer this?

  18. Comment by John Smith on September 25, 2022 at 9:43 am

    I’m sorry, since when is nepotism within methodist circles a secret or hidden thing?

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