Spiritual Abuse

Mark Driscoll Won’t Be the Last

Bart Gingerich on October 19, 2021

One of the top podcasts in the country is Christianity Today’s “Rise and Fall of Mars Hill,” a series that explores the founding, dynamics, scandals, and aftermath of Mars Hill Church, founded by Pastor Mark Driscoll in Seattle, Washington. It joins a slew of documentaries, exposes, and historical dramas that explore cults, spiritually abusive groups, and prominent (but ultimately dysfunctional) ministries.

Some of these institutions are Christian in origin and doctrine; others are not. Nevertheless, it is obvious that the watching and listening public of America is fascinated by the nexus of faith, narcissistic personalities, avariciousness, and power dynamics that one finds in such stories. Abusive religious groups and their scandals cannot help but create a reaction.

Many Christians have reevaluated bylaws, canons, institutional structures, rhetoric, and practices to stave off predatory personalities, insatiable egos, and very real harms inflicted upon Christ’s flock. To see the Lord’s sheep fleeced in the name of biblical fidelity and Christian discipleship is a particularly ugly blasphemy, with its fair share of sacrileges. Others respond by questioning ancient Christian doctrines and practices; not a few question the benefit and validity of religion (or, rather, religious communities) altogether. 

Nevertheless, one theme emerges from all of these reactions: a desire that such abusive projects never occur again. There is a deep aspiration to tamp down if not extinguish the popularity of religious gurus, whether they be Rajneesh (the Bhagwan) or abrasive, manipulative pastors who flee from church discipline and accountability. In fact, some seem willing to throw out the proverbial baby with the bathwater to achieve such ends, tossing out fundamentals of Christian orthodoxy to ensure safety and sanity. 

However, Christians must not be naïve about the realities at play when it comes to spiritually abusive groups. People really are driven to strong personalities for leadership and identity, regardless of the era or the place. At the same time, we live in an era of immense disintegration and alienation, even while we are social creatures. We will crave a place to belong. Similarly, relativistic views and secular discourse that stifle deep spiritual investigation and devotional meditation starve us religiously. Biblical illiteracy exacerbates lack of discernment, at least in more Christian societies. And, perhaps most crucially of all, what is “normal” in our society is deeply contested and, in some areas, deeply wrong. As school boards, parents, and magistrates argue over the reality of male and female, and as Christian norms, values, and teachings are increasingly sidelined, mocked, and suppressed, two important trends will likely arise.

First, sincere, biblically faithful Christians will seek out pastors, speakers, writers, and other leaders who reject such errors forthrightly, boldly, and even dramatically. Brash behavior and rhetoric against the spirit of the age will draw in supporters. Meanwhile, idiosyncrasies and doctrinal confusion not only go unaddressed, but are doubled down on as beneficial or even essential. To gain a loyal following, one must often be “weird.” More seriously, sins of beloved leaders may receive a blind eye all in the name of the good they do for others and their necessity for an institution’s survival. Why kill the goose that lays the golden eggs, even when the goose is preaching poison from the pulpit, exuding a far-from-blameless character, or unjustly enriching himself?

Second, it will be much harder for clergymen and laymen alike to vet religious personalities and their ministries. Simply put, if the average American cannot distinguish between a boy and a girl, then what is now mainstream cannot be used as an accurate gauge of what is normal or acceptable in the Church. When the strange and immoral become normalized, the doctrinal and moral “sniff test” becomes much more difficult to apply and use. When is someone being counter-culturally faithful, and when is someone leading others in a sectarian, exploitative, or heretical trajectory? Christians cannot trust in the surrounding culture to form and accurately assess what is and is not acceptable in a preacher or teacher.

What is a Christian to say? What are Christians to do?

It is important to remember that corrupt religious figures have haunted history’s pages for a long time; similarly, faithful, loving Christians have also exerted themselves in ministry, often at great sacrifice. To this day, there are good people fulfilling their vocations, being salt and light to the world. There is no need to reject religion altogether. In fact, it is almost assuredly impossible to do so. Also, Christians must not feed their fascination for the novel, shiny, and faddish. New doctrine and strange practices, while exciting, do not always belie good intentions—in fact, quite the opposite.

Finally, pastors must be vigilant watchmen and wise gatekeepers for their flocks, which is exactly what ancient Christians expected of pastoral leaders (as outlined in such texts as the Pastoral Epistles). Pastors, along with well-informed laymen, must help congregants exercise discernment. This entails a certain familiarity—if not working mastery—of certain fields of study germane to such sober-minded religious assessments. This means seminaries (if they will still exert major influence in the Church for the coming decades, which seems likely) must double down on the unglamorous traditional subjects required for the M.Div. and equivalent degrees: thorough training in biblical languages, church history, and theology. A general knowledge of logic, philosophy, and history will also prove a helpful foundation. Unfortunately, even evangelical seminaries haven’t been completely immune to fads or cutting academic corners on helpful subjects, often pushing for fewer years of study or deeply investing in novel counseling theories. Schooling is far from the end-all or be-all of pastoral ministry and ecclesiastical health, but divinity schools of various stripes remain an important and helpful step in the clerical pipeline.

However, even with such preparations, corrupt religious leaders will still gather followers. Certain people have the talents and desire to lead others, and, in this case, they happen to excel at leading others spiritually astray. The hope is that Christians in faithful churches won’t be so easily deceived, and that they can effectively help others to avoid or escape toxic personalities and organizations for better pastures.

Barton Gingerich serves as a priest at St. Jude’s Anglican Church in Richmond, Virginia, and previously served on the staff of the Institute on Religion & Democracy.

  1. Comment by Kristy on October 20, 2021 at 2:52 pm

    You note that it will be increasingly easy for leaders with ill-intent or idiosyncratic beliefs to lead, especially as the world becomes more confused. While I certainly think that we have already been seeing this in many forms, and we have seen the communities following these leaders giving too many a pass for bad behavior, I do think there is one check that may remain intact. Even in secular communities, an accusation of hypocrisy is often quite clear and more easily discerned. Does a leader teach sexual purity but simultaneously abuse their congregants? Does a leader teach humility but simultaneously act in a proud and narcissistic manner? Those leaders who have done this have often been those that have received the greatest public backlash, and possibly those who have driven the most from the church. I believe we all know some lapsed Christians who claim such a motivation for stepping back from the church.
    If the church can wisely watch for this hypocrisy we may sidestep some of the greatest downfalls of dealing with duplicitous and manipulative personalities. How can we better provide accountability for our leaders? How can we make it easier for leaders to get help when needed, if they find they are struggling to live faithfully? Perhaps these are some of the first questions we should ask, especially as many large denominations undergo splits because of the fruit of a lack of accountability and lawlessness.

  2. Comment by Ken Dean on October 22, 2021 at 8:13 pm

    Return to teaching WHAT the Bible actually says and stop preaching what we want it to say. Leviticus snd Deuteronomy should be the HOT topics at Bible study. Condemnation of willful sin should be shouted from the mountain

  3. Comment by George on October 23, 2021 at 9:27 am

    Mark Driscoll, why build a million dollar church and dress like a bum? Turmoil follows you where ever you go. That’s a fact !

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